Addresses disagreeing with others

如何解決自己和別人的意見不一致

To disagree with someone you risk appearing rude, argumentative, or unlikable. This is why it is easier to be passive and keep quiet. The problem is that you will not get your ideas heard or acted upon, which can limit your effectiveness and status in your organization.

要表示不同意見，就要冒著看上去粗魯、好辯、不討人喜歡的風險。這就是保持沉默和被動要更容易做到的原因。問題是這樣你的觀點就不會被聽到或付諸實施。這就會限制你在組織中的效力和地位。

Have you ever experienced that horrible feeling when you don’t say what’s on your mind and someone else does, and then they get accolades for the idea? Don’t allow this to happen. Practice disagreeing with in less high-stakes conversations. When you disagree, do so with poise and objectivity. Simply state your view and the facts supporting it. Once you gain confidence in your ability to communicate disagreement, take some more risks in challenging situations.

你是否曾有過自己不敢言，而別人卻說出來，后來那人因為這個主意而獲得獎賞的可憎經歷呢？不要讓這種事情再發生了。開始你可以在一些風險較低的對話中去表達自己的不同意見，把這當成是練習。表達自己的不同觀點時要鎮定和客觀。只需要簡單地闡述出自己觀點和論據。從這種溝通中獲得自信后，在具有挑戰性的情形下，去冒一些更大的風險

（中國日報網英語點津 Annabel 編輯）?